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My experiences of advising parents on child safety

Christmas Trees, Car Seats and Presents!

Another re post from this time last year – last time I posted this it got hundreds/thousands of views – thousands more parents aware!  Let’s get the message out there!

 

Christmas Trees, Car Seats and Presents!

 

“The nights are drawing in and the days are getting colder.

All the hats and gloves are out and our scarves are keeping us warm,

Our cars are frosted with ice, and spider webs glisten in the morning light,

it can only mean that winter is here!

Cold mornings, wind, drizzle, hail and snow, minus temperatures and Christmas shopping, mince pies and chilly toes!

The fun of decorating the Christmas tree with the kids, helping them bake cookies to leave out on Christmas Eve and the excitement of visiting Santa!

A last minute dash to deliver gifts to family and friends whilst Dad buys all his presents for Mum last minute!

Christmas Eve and ET is always on the TV, Mum watches the Corrie Christmas special and the children are full of joy and wonder for the next day!

4am Christmas morning and you awake to cries of “He’s been! He’s been!” and so the day starts!

The morning passes in a cloud of wrapping paper, chocolate and toys,

Then it’s time to wrap up, get in the car and off to Nana’s for a scrumptious Christmas dinner!

6pm and the children are exhausted, time to make your way home on the cold Christmas night and put the Dr Who Christmas special on,

The children dream of their magical day and Mum and Dad reflect on another amazing year.”

Christmas is such a magical and exciting time, especially when you have little ones to make such a fuss of!  The fun of going to visit friends and the joy of seeing family, giving and receiving gifts and eating too many mince pies!  There’s always somewhere to go or someone to see and lots of Christmas parties to attend!

Christmas is unfortunately a dangerous time on the roads too.  From poor weather conditions that we are not used to driving in, drink drivers and drug drivers, to rushing from work to get home for the holidays – they can all cause accidents.  We also tend to take our children out in the car more, to visit family and friends and to go for Christmas shopping and treats, a collision can happen anytime.

Read on for more info on how to protect yourself and your children this Christmas.

How to protect yourself

Be mindful of the amount of alcohol you consume, if you have a Christmas party to attend arrange a lift home with a friend or relative that hasn’t been drinking the night before.  It is quite possible to be over the drink drive limits the next morning.

Keep an emergency kit in the car in case you break down.  Ideally, this should include:

  •       Warning Triangle
  •       Tow Rope
  •       Torch
  •       Hi-Vis jacket/Waistcoat
  •       Tyre Inflator
  •       Blankets/Emergency foil blanket
  •       Spare hats, scarves and gloves
  •       Umbrella

If you are going on a long journey, also take the following:

  •       Flask of hot water/Tea/Coffee
  •       Fresh, bottled Water
  •       Food/Chocolate

Remember, if you break down on the motorway or a dual carriageway it is safest to exit your vehicle from the passenger side and wait for the breakdown recovery behind the barrier.  All children; not matter what age, should also exit the vehicle – but leave pets inside the car as they can cause major hazards if they get loose.  Keep your hazard lights and side lights on.

Protecting your children in the car during winter

The winter months are very cold and we don’t want our kids catching a chill, but did you know a puffy winter coat can cause a child seat harness to fit incorrectly?  Meaning the harness may not work properly if you were involved in a collision.

The puffy winter coat is so warm as it traps air in it.  When you leave a child wearing their coat in the car seat that layer of air is still in the coat and creates a gap between the harness and the child, although not visible.  If you were to be involved in a collision, when the child is thrown into the harness the air is forced out of the coat, and the harness is then too loose.

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This child doesn’t normally travel with her coat on in the car and this picture is for demonstration purposes only!

As you can see in the above picture, the harness straps are not resting correctly on the child’s shoulders; they are at risk of slipping off.  With the coat on it would also make it very easy for her to take her arms out of the harness herself.

Take note of the harness adjusters on her shoulders and see where they are in the next picture.  The harness is also dipping far below her shoulders and there isn’t much harness left to use.

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In this picture (above) the coat has been removed and she is kept warm with a blanket wrapped snug about her.  The beauty of this is that if the child gets too warm they can remove the blanket themselves.

The harness is also at an acceptable level on her shoulders and you can clearly see the harness adjusters that were sitting on her shoulders are now lower on her chest.

This clearly demonstrates how much space the big puffy coat is taking up – if she was in the car and involved in an impact all the air in that coat would be compressed, leaving that much room between her and the harness – which could have devastating consequences.

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If you are still worried about your child feeling the cold, strap them into the seat properly; then put the coat on over the harness, as pictured above.  Again, this does not impede with the harness and the child can remove it themselves if they get too warm.

Keep small babies out of snowsuits too – these cause the same problems!  Use thin fleece all-in-ones and jumpers to keep the child warm and a blanket.  Babies can overheat very quickly in the car when they are in a snowsuit.

Many thanks to John for the photographs and the lovely little Jessica for modelling!

Merry Christmas!

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Repost – Ruby and GINGER cosy car seat cover, keeping your little one safe and warm this winter!

A repost from earlier this year – this is so very important yet so many parents just do not realise. 

 

During the colder months I regularly see parents putting their babies in danger when travelling in the car – and they don’t even realise they are doing it.

As a result of trying to protect their baby, the parent is inadvertently putting their baby at risk of being ejected from the car seat, or at risk of dangerous over heating.

So what is this terrible mistake so many parents in the UK make? 

Answer: Big, puffy snowsuits and car seats.

In the simple act of a parent trying to protect their baby from getting cold, they are putting them at considerable risk.

So why is putting your baby in a snow suit when using the car seat so dangerous?

Snowsuits, as well as puffy or chunky clothing causes a car seat harness to fit a baby incorrectly.  Car seat harnesses need to be as close to a baby’s body as possible to be most effective in an accident.  If big, puffy clothing is between the baby and the harness it creates a gap.  When the harness then has to do its job and restrain a baby in the event of an impact, it is too loose – as all the air that is trapped in the puffiness disperses.  When the harness is too loose, the baby runs a significant risk of being ejected from the car seat.

Take a look at the 2 photographs below, the snowsuit isn’t particularly puffy, but it is thick.  When the baby is in the snowsuit she appears to be strapped in tightly.  I then unclipped the harness and removed the baby from the seat (without adjusting the harness)  upon strapping her back in you can clearly see the gap now created, and that she has also dropped down in the car seat.

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Not only is there a very real danger of a baby being ejected from the car seat, when a baby is in a puffy snow suit they are also unable to regulate their body temperature.  A car heats up very quickly, and whereas adults are able to adjust the car temperature to suit them or remove clothing, a baby is not as able to make herself comfortable.  There are also related health issues linked to babies being too warm.

So what can be done?

Clearly, nobody wants to put their baby in danger – but when it is cold outside babies still need to be kept warm, for the same reason snowsuits in the car seat are dangerous with overheating – they are unable to regulate their body temperature!

There are a few options a parent can take; you can dress your baby in a few layers (base layer, sleep suit + jumper and warm pants) or dress them in their regular clothes and cover them with a blanket.  You can use a cosy toes that comes with some car seats or buy a specially made after market cover to help them regulate their temperature and keep them warm.

There are a couple of covers available to help combat this issue, but the one I am going to focus on is the Ruby & GINGER cosy car seat cover.

Ruby & GINGER cosy car seat cover

I prefer the Ruby & GINGER cosy car seat cover over other options for a few reasons:

1)      Most importantly:  It doesn’t interfere with the harness – so baby can be safely strapped in, giving complete peace of mind to the parent

2)      The cover doesn’t interfere with the seat belt routing when fitting the seat

3)      It’s 3tog, so very effective at regulating temperature and keeping little one warm.

4)      It’s easy to lift it off – particularly useful in an emergency to quickly release a baby from the car seat.

I also love it because!…

5)      It’s quick and easy to pop on and I haven’t yet found an infant seat it won’t fit

6)      They are super stylish!

7)      They come in a handy bag, so you can store it between uses (great for the typical British weather!)

8)      They are incredibly luxurious and well made – the material is soft yet strong, and the attention to detail is fabulous.

The lovely people at Ruby & GINGER kindly sent me one of their covers to help me in this blog, and I was very impressed!

It came beautifully packaged:

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It comes with a handy carry bag:

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It fits loads of car seats!

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As you can see from the photos, the cover simply fits over the seat itself, and as it is 3tog, it very effectively keeps the baby warm, whilst allowing the air to circulate.

It doesn’t interfere at all with the harness and is quick and easy to remove – in case the baby needed to be quickly released from the seat. (After an accident, for example)  It also doesn’t interfere at all with the seat belt routing when fitting the seat and allows the baby to retain free movement to kick and explore their world.

It also fits all ages of babies, I have tested it on a 5 week old and a 15 month old, and both were warm, comfortable and very, very cosy!

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Both babies were very happy with the cover in place and it also looks incredibly stylish to boot!

Not only does it provide a safe solution to snow suits, it can also be used with the pram when being used as a travel system to keep little one warm!  Perfect for parents who pop in and out of the car with baby frequently – on the school run for example!

At an rrp of £30 they really are a must have buy to ensure your baby is travelling safely and snugly!

Ruby & GINGER have a range of accessories designed to assist parents everywhere – as well as the cosy car seat cover I love the Nappy Purse!  Check them out at http://www.rubyandginger.co.uk

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